August 10, 2010
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First ladies cut off a mans joint, now they burning it! Be careful men out there. You dont want to have the Freddy Krueger look down below. That ish looks worse then having an STD.
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WOW, how sad, i know he is a lot of pain, wow
That is gruesome….there are women doing the same thing, they just get killed.That is really soo sad. She has to have some anger issues,.I really don’t see how someone could do that no matter how mad you were. Just leave him, he evidently doesn’t love you anyway so why try keeping him?
The real issue is people being deceptive. if you lie to someone, they can’t make an informed choice. most people don’t get mad because someone doesn’t like them. they get mad when someone tries to treat them like a food. the rage comes from feeling deceived. these kinds of situations can be prevented in most situations if people stopped lying. wouldn’t it be great if the average guy or girl says to their mate, “I can’t be one-one-one. We should date other people.” If this happened, people would be able to make their own choices, knowing where they stand. Then they can move on without feeling disrespected or mistreated like someone pulled some crazy-making stuff on them.
meant to write: they get mad when someone tries to treat them like a fool (not food)…lol…typed too fast.
I’m a woman, I’ve cheated and been cheated on, send this itchbay to jail. You don’t do this to someone. I guess her next man will throw hot grease on her friggin face. Loser
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THIS IS ONE OF THE WORST THINGS I HAVE EVER SEEN. SHE SHOULD NOT JUST GO TO JAIL SHE NEEDS TO HAVE THE SAME THING DONE TO HER. THAT’S REAL F…ED UP PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN HOW TO MOVE ON AND CONTROL THEY’ER MENTAL ISSUES. MAN I WOULD SUE HER ASS FOR EVERYTHING HAD AND EVER WILL OWN REAL TALK…….NOT A FUNNY MATTER AT ALL…
The bottomless is: know who you are dealing with! There are always signs b4 the bad/crazy behavior.
Guys – She may have an INSANE BODY & could THROW DOWN in the kitchen, but, u gotta ask yourself, is she CRAZY enough 2 THROW hot grease DOWN your draws?
Ladies – He might bring that good love & make that good money, but, u gotta ask yourself, does he LOVE 2 SHARE HIS WEALTH with others?
to gemini girl,
how do you justify that type of evil. do you see what this woman did to him? do you see how he is maimed for life? that is something that happens out of pure lack of control for ones emotions not to mention hate plus much deeper mental issues. and no im not condoning men who kill everyone involved either. but to try to justify that shit with an excuse means you are just as evil and you need some serious counseling before you lose it to. the real issue is she lost control of herself and showed her true ugly nature. just like anyone who commits a crime of passion whether it be male or female. that kind of behavior is disgusting and should be punished to the full extent.
damn, she was in love with that bone, but i bet he wont cheat again
*bottomless = bottom line , oops!
At Red: she wasn’t the only one w/a lack of control. I’m not condoning her actions or his, but both their actions & reactions scream dysfunction.
He’s 2 scared 2 tell her he doesn’t want 2 commit & she’s 2 scared 2 tell him she might lose control if he did.
MAN I LIKE TO SEE MY EX LOOKIN LIKE THAT HE DESERVES TO BE LOOKIN THAT GOOD
She got some hurt up in her wow !!!! Like the song said,,, it’s a thin line between love and hate ,,, and that no lie she feel if he wanted to cheat now he going to be eating because down there is gone I feel sorry for him may god be with him and may god be with her to because she was not thinking she was really hurt!!!!! Wooooooooooooooooooooowoow
ladybad !!!! What u said lol u a mess they go and lie and cheat and look u in the face at the same time and say I luv u I feel her pain I did what waiting to exhale did I burn all his things I new he luv and it felt so good but she went deep on him wow no more sex for him!!!!!! He would never for get her!!!!!!!
I’ve been cheated on and done some cheating. It hurts to be lied to and believe me you some people play you like a fool and disrespect you in the worst way. what if this man cheating cause her to get HIV or an STD? This is wrong but so is cheating.
Red, you read WAY WAY too much into my comment. I don’t justify what this woman did. this is a sad situation for both people. but neither you nor i know if he did some major abuse (mental/psychological) to her, that could play a role in provoking her to this extreme.
maybe he didn’t abuse her — just wanted to cheat. but she should have been given the option if she wanted to be in such a relationship.
there are people who are sociopaths in the world who will mistreat and abuse others through lying, misleading,etc. to the point of driving them crazy.
and yes, since this is a major assault on another person, the woman who did this should be charged with a crime. just because someone has done something for their own reasons does not mean they shouldn’t face consequences.
You chicks have to be looney to justify this blantant disrespect for another human being. There is no actions that this man could have taken that would be worthy of someone buring his gentalia with scolding hot grease short of physically abusing this women. Men can be cruel I realize that Im a man! But the person who is capable of doind something like this is capable of doing anything. To validate her action based on him being decietful means you just as crazy as her…. period. How would you like it if someone did that to your brother, father or even your husband. Aint no coming back from this. Her love wounds will heal but he is mental and physical damage for life.
There is no telling what all that man put her through for her to respnd the way she did! She could have suffered years of abuse and that one little incident jsut pushed her over the edge! How do we know that she didn’t catch him cheating in “HER HOUSE” or even in “HER BED”? Then after seeing that, she went into a rage! Could she have just walked away? Yes she could have! But its easier said than done! I was once that lady! But by the grace of God, I didn’t go the same route she did! That’s wh I can kind of sympathize with her! Its sad that the man had to suffer, but he’ll think twice next time (if there’s a next time) before toying with a womans emotions! The same thing applies to women who think they’re slick as well!
The only way this dude deserved this is if he was an abusive psycho. 2: If he raped ANYONE. 3:If he was juggling pots of hot grease…then well, he was just stupid! LOL
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That is tragic and sad…..a broken heart is not worth jail time!!!! i hope hmboy has ALOT of pain killers
She should be arrested. He will be messed up his whole life and her feeling will heal soon, she is very immature and should no date if she cant handle what come along with dating. so childish
have u been in her shoes???? then shut the fuck up some wounds dont heal
OMG, this is horrible to do to another person, hell I’ve been cheated on a lot, been married three times and put threw all types of BS, and I still say that there is no revenge like moving on and leaving all the baggage for him to lugg around. Its nothing like having some self respect left by leavin a person alone, and the better u were to that person the more they have to regret later on after you’ve moved on with your life to something new. There’s an old sayin that goes “it better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all”. It might sound corny but its real talk cause if you move on without the BS then you have a better chance of one day meeting the right person. So hang tuff ladies and gentlmen, there’s no need for violence.
he had the nerve to cheat with that lil s***?
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What goes around, comes around…that’s all I’m saying!!!!!
And u notice pretty much all of the men on here are the ones who is defending this man cheating. First of she did take it to the EXTREME but he was just as wrong cheating he may have nt burnt her with grease but he fucked with her head and mental abuse is just as bad. Men need to start keepin it real u get more from tellin the truth and u get “burnt” from lieing. KARMA
thts fucked up what happen 2 him, but i bet he learn his lesson. u cant keep playing with people mind n dnt think sum bad aint gone happen 2 u……4 the womans out there tht got a cheating ass guy, live n let go, fuck him, life goes on n love do hurt…….just keep it 100 n u will c the different outcome on things. guys if u wanna cheat, just b a man n let yo girl go……..sumtimes its hard, but its a lot safer 4 u n her……
That was wrong as f*ck. If a man/woman cheat it dose not mean that u cant go out and fine another person to be with. The person that did this is wrong. WHAT U DO TO OTHERS U MAY NOT WANT THEM DONE TO U. For the person that this happen to i have nothing to say but DAMMMMMMMM. I would have to beat her ass or shoot the B#tch.
Some one needs to beat her ass .She need to get some years for this shit. Your balls is fucked up for life god dame . I know ant no black woman did this shit . We dont going to never fuck up something we need or dont. This bitch is crazy as hell.
You have got to be kidding me. Men seem to have sympathy for the man only. Feeling like what he did is justified because he is a man. The “blackman” comment was, what if this was your brother or father? Well, what if this was your mother or sister hurting and in pain. You take lightly the pain that YOU men inflict on women. You assume we should just grin and bare it as done for generations before. Well, in other countries, if you steal you get your hand cut off. If you lie you get your tongue cut out. So, if you cheat why not get rid of that problem too. By the way, The crime rates are low in these countries.
I wonder what the hearts of so many women look like on the inside after men so carelessly hurt them after lying to win their hearts and affection. I would imagine it looks like this mans penis. We are different creatures. We are motivated by emotion and thats what makes us women. Men have realized this fact and used it against us for many moons banking on the fact that we are the weaker sex and would never act upon that. Fact is, he and many men close to him will never cheat again after experiencing and witnessing this. Lesson learned!!
Thats fucked up, I’ve had HOT GREASE!!! thrown on me, but it fucked my back up, I found the mf that did that to me and beat his ass, but that shit, I would probally sue the shit out that bitch and press all the charges I could and get her locked up for the rest of her life, real talk
And she did it on purpose, with no regard for that mans life, hang the bitch, I say
Dayummm, His junk looking real, real bad. I just got cheated on, and you know what for me it was a done deal, ova. But neva did I think about burning a itchbay up….Thought about putting candybars in the gas tank though….but even that took too much energy…Ladies heal urself when ur man cheats, then move on.
good!!!!! us women do every thing for our men we bend over backwards and do all kind of flips then they have nerves to cheat and yes they should pay and i wont mine doing the time for that crime!!!!!!!!!
Wow, unbelievable this is horrible and criminal. Unfortunately for both of them this is a lifelong consequence for both people. Deceit and mental health coupled with intimacy is a receip for disaster. A note to all singles dating, research the ones your dating, go through interview questions on the first date through general conversation. If you get any flags do not schedule another date or call the person back. Be polite an let them know that you are not interested in dating at this time.
Ha Ha Ha & My Ex Thought I Was Crazy!!
I was shocked to see this image at first.
But now, I think it’s a fake. Why?
Because what man, having such severe burns to his most sensitive body part could stand up erect against a “lit blue” background and holding a backpack in his left hand?
If this really happened, chances are that the victim could only be photographed on a bed/gurnie or operating room table. And wouldn’t there be some bleeding involved in 3rd degree burns?
He deserved it you never kno what this man has done to her. shit they gotta learn the hard way stop fuckin up these women or men lives if u would rather fuck around don’t get in a relationship dayum wat so hard about that smh I bet he has learned his lesson and has set an example for every other cheater out here IT CAN HAPPEN TO U dayumm this beats a chopped off dick. seriously fucking someone else ain’t never worth getting that! SORRY I DISAGREE WITH MOST OF YA’LL COMMENTING
so so so so sad i could not to a do a ant like this how can you do a man like this that all i can say how can you do this and sleep at night
to Mia: u retarded if u think wounds dont heal, but men do have 2 realize women r waaaaay more emotional then men, so watch urself fellas. Now if all he did was cheat then it wasnt in no way that serious 2 burn dude up like that. Now if he was beatin her head n, then he deserved what he got, but 4 u 2 say lesson learned u should b shitted on by every man u encounter, and also this isn’t something that scares a man from cheating cuz if that was the case men wouldve stopped cheating when o girl cut dude shit off a few yrs back. Now if this were 2 happen 2 u i bet yo monkey ass wouldnt b sayin lesson learned. and 2 Very Unique: dont do nothing 4 sum1 expectin something in return, if u bend over backwards 4 a man thats on u, didnt no1 tell u 2 do all that, ppl do things 4 sum1 because they want 2!!!!! and muthf….’s thats feelin what she did is ok i hope the same thing happens 2 u real talk!!!!
MISSY, I don’t know you or what you’ve been through and since I only have your words to go by to generate a picture of you I can see that you are an extremely foolish and ignorant person. ” shit they gotta learn the hard way stop fuckin up these women or men lives” please you sound like a ghetto hoodrat who doesn’t know any better do yourself a favor and shut the fuck up. I bet if it were a woman who had hot grease thrown on her pussy you wouldn’t be talking all that smack. Get the fuck outta here.
OH MY….WAT DA HELL…
Problem with women and anger is regret. Now even if she wanted him back, it’s not happening and it will forever be her fault. You’ll say why would she want him back, but I’ll ask you how many women have been cheated on and still stay with the man? She did choose to burn him instead of leaving him. Either way… she’s lucky if she’s still alive. Obviously he might never cheat again, but more importantly if he becomes gay, it’ll be her fault for making his dumbass afraid of women.
His fault for cheating, but there is no justification for harming another person beyond self defense. This was not self defense, this was pure spite.
To Paradox to let u kno I’m no where near ghetto or a hood rat but I can tell u that I have been cheated on and I kno the feelin that goes thru ur body I just didnt react and she did that shit doesn’t feel good Im not the cheating type so I would expect the same the biggest thing is none of us know the story …………….. getting cheated on is an emotional reck and painful! nor am I ignorant so uuuuu get the fuck outta here
2 Missy, i hope u continue u 2 get cheated on, that shit aint no fuckin lesson learned, i hope u get hot grease poured on ur ta ta and post it so i can leave u that comment of urs, LESSON LEARNED!!!!!!
Ohhh man this has to be painful smh he won’t be doing anything for a while if ever! She’s worst then Larana Bobit ……….hope he heal quickly burns hurt bad Make sure u kno the type of person ur dealing with Ladies and Gents
chicks tripping d’s days he shouldnt of cheating on her but at least he didnt break the law. Im a guy who has been cheated on adn I would of never thought of doing something like this, this chick and everybody that agrees with her needs cousling
Clearly Missy is on some other ish…you never allow someone to take you out of your zone. If you lose yourself in another person where they gain that much control over you…you were never a complete person to begin with. The best solution would have been to walk away from the situation. Granted we dont know the full story, but I can u it wasn’t worth pouring hot @$$ grease over his gential…Now had he poured hot grease over her breast and vajayjay….What would the world say…Think about yor actions before you do them.
i dont give a fuck what he did he didnt deserve that n god dont like ugly so shell get hers
ILKE JAMES BROWN WOULD SAY! THE BIG PAYBACK!!!!!!!!
I WOULDN’T SAY HE DESERVED WUT HAPPENED 2 HIM BUT YES, IT’S A LESSON LEARNED. INSTEAD OF CHEATING, HE SHOULD’VE JUST BEEN A MAN & LET HER KNOW HE WANTED TO FUCK OTHER PEOPLE. THAT WAY SHE CAN DECIDE IF SHE STILL WANTS TO BE WITH HIS ASS OR NOT. WOMEN ARE MORE EMOTIONAL THAN MEN & LOVE HARDER THAN MEN. YALL DON’T KNOW HOW SHE CAUGHT HIM CHEATING WHEN SHE CAUGHT HIM. HE COULD’VE BEEN IN HER BED IN HER CRIB. I WOULD’VE POURED HOT GREASE ON HIM & THE BITCH HE GOT CAUGHT FUCKING & I DON’T CARE WHO MAD!
This was just extremely uncalled for. Cheating or not, just leave GOD has someone that will be faithful and treat you like the queen or king that you are. This was a heartless act. That not only destroyed this man life, but hers as well. She has a felony charge on her record. This was a senseless act. My prayers are with them both, the scares of this event will last for the rest of their lives.
It’s too bad she did that to him. Even if he did cheat this is dysfiguring and will cause him life long problems. This is very sad for the cheating man. She should have just walked away and left him to his everlasting lonliness with multiple women. I am sure she will be spending pleny of time in jail for that. Has to make a man think twice there are girls who will do that to a man. They are few and far inbetween but there are some. Why not just leave a person if you are not happy. Don’t cheat, just leave.
Its 3 sides to a story, his, hers and the truth. What if he gave her a disease she can’t cure? Did he burn her? He did something to her to get that treatment. Its bigger than we know. No it wasn’t right but Kharma comes quicker than we think.
I we know it hurts when cheated on, but to go to this length to inflict such pain on another human being makes u no different from a killer. 2 wrongs never made a right and for dick she now will have to face her consequences.Think b4 you act is a true fact.
She is my mutha fukkin HERO! This beeotch needs to run for president!!!!!
WELL DONE SISTA!
This is not a good way to teach anybody a lesson…She could have killed him….Maybe if he was beating on her at the time I could understand (like self defense) but this is just going alittle over board. Aint no man worth me going to jail over….Screw that “on the the next one.”
Sure we have all thought about doing the Al Green on a man but it was just that a thought. This behavior did not solve the problem it only created a worst one. If this couple have children where does that leave them
You as a women have to have really low self-esteem to do something like this to a man for cheating on you….You act like he gave you HIV on purpose…..This is why we have thing called laws and Jails for stupidity like this………This is the stupidest shit in the world to me and anybdoy that thinks this is good…YOU STUPID TOO
I don’t care what he did. No one deserves to be hurt like that, God said when someone smacks you to turn the other cheek! God continue to forgives us ever when we don’t forgive ourselves or others. However, she should have left and either put him out. Life itself would have taught him a lesson, because what comes around goes around believe that!!! But you don’t fight fire with fire!!
That bitch deserves to go to hell. Regardless if the man cheated, she’s completely ruined that man’s life. I hope she burns.
But what if she went 2 jail & he bailed her out? u know love is powerful u feel me?
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Well DAYUM…She probably feels bad but being cheated on hurts and i believe women go into temporary insanity…been cheated on and i wanted to KILL him so he luckily he alive…and yes god dont like ugly but that dont make her ugly..she is a human with feelings and i’m sure she doesnt go arounf throwing grease on folk
Lock That Bitch Up
God forbid this ever happens to me. The woman would never be seen again.
THIS IS A PRIME EXAMPLE OF THE SHIT I BE TALK’N ABOUT MEN & WOMEN BE CRYING OUT FOR A GOOD PERSON TO ARRIVE IN YOUR LIFE BUT WHEN THEY GET THERE YOU DON’T KNOW HOW TO TREAT THEM IS IT BECAUSE THERE ARE NO MORE MORALS IF SO WHERE IS IT.THIS WAS UNNECESSARY BUT CALLED FOR WAKE UP FELLAS OUR BLACK WOMEN ARE TIRED & PISSED OFF. THEY WANT COMPANIONSHIP ARE YOU UP 2 THE CHALLENGE. PEACE & BLESSINGS
wow it hurts like hell to be cheated on and its the most hurtful thing in the world when you love someone but tht is too much thts ruined someones life and now she goin to jail tht nigga gonna heal and still be fuckin she gonna be in jail ladies if tht nigga cheatin leave him and move on to the next one….please!
@ UNIQUE, PEOPLE MAY THINK U’RE STUPID AS WELL. U’RE PROBABLY THE MAIN 1 WHO LET NIGGAS JUST WALK OVER U & DRAG U THRU THE DIRT. NO WOMAN HAS 2 HAVE LOW SELF ESTEEM TO DO SOME SHIT LIKE THIS. US AS WOMEN R SICK & TIRED OF PUTTING UP WITH SENSLESS SHIT THAT CAN BE NIPPED IN THE BUD IF NIGGAS KEEP SHIT 100. LIKE I SAID, NO HE DIDN’T DESERVE IT BUT I BETCHA HE LEARNED HIS DAMN LESSON. BEFORE HE THINK ABOUT CHEATING AGAIN, HE’S GONNA LOOK DOWN @ HIS BURNED DICK & THINK TWICE.
WELL HE WONT BE USING THAT ANYTIME SOON.
damn now that ish aint even called for see sum ish like that ever happen to me im goin to jail for murder and thats jus it i mean yea he wus wrong for cheatin but that is jus crazy like that ish is really f*cked up. i can understand like havin auntha dude beat the hell out of him or jus leavin him period but to burn his stuff is completely crazy. like i said before i wudda been goin to jail for murder. cuz imma kill me a chick she ever do sum ish like that.
That shit was harsh. Noone should cheat on anyone but she went way overboard with this. She should’ve just left his ass. She wouldn’t like it if he poured hot grease on her. That was way too bogus. Now he has to live with that for the rest of his life and she has to go to jail. What is this world coming to? SMH!
Ok – I don’t really think what she did was right, BUT – having been cheated on I can tell you it’s not ALL emotional hurt. He gave me the HPV virus which gave me uterine cancer. It was very scary and I had to have several very painful procedures. Luckily, I caught it in time and am now cancer free. Cheating is SO damaging in SO many ways! I don’t think he deserved THIS, but those of you that don’t think cheating is very bad, consider what I went through.
@ Mia; I don’t think that the men on this are outright condoning or showing sympathy towards the guy. I believe it’s more a mindset that his initial actions weren’t equal in severity to the consequences. And asfar as the comparison to other countries; I’m grateful our society has evolved beyond such barbarism, but equality has its price. If as a woman your man is chating on you then leave. Outright, just up and go, its as simple as that, ecause if he didnt respect you enough to go cheat once, I guarantee he’ll do it again. You can’t use emotions as an excuse. Us guys have em too, but from early on most of us are taught the “Don’t cry” mentality; because we’re expected to take lifes hard knocks with a smile and the anticipation more bad things are gonna come. It’s not about having a lack of emotion, its about having an understanding that it’s life, and it happens. There are plety of good guys out there, but it seems a lot of ladies also want to go for the bad boys with false hope; and you can’t fix what doesn’t want to be fixed.
she should be prosecuted and put in jail! this is a crime. assult..battery, something! im not justifying the cheating part, but that is no excuse..and she should not get away with this!
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” I Will Never Lie Again”-Immature
yea that is extreme. he had to have known she was crazy. At least she didnt kill them or him. He gon need lots of surgery and skin graftin for those burns. no tellin how many nerves are permantly damaged.
Sad situation. Lies plant seeds of Rage.
Is he circumcised?
Love, peace, & hot azz grease!!!!!!!!! Wow!!! She would have hurt him more by just leaving and erasing him from her memory!!!! Can u say Jail time for her & no more humping for him! SAD
Dam buddy..
A great man once told me dat if u let a thief into ur home and something goes missing then u know who took it…but a lie will get u killed or worse as we all see here..bruh just gotta live wit the consequences of his lies if he don’t just say to hell wit it and off himself coz he’s annihilated below the belt..Ima pray for him..
I WOULDNT GIVE A SHIT IF DUDE GOT CAUGHT FUCKIN HER MOMMA…SHE HAS TO BE A WEAK MINDED PERSON TO ALLOW ANY OTHER BEING TO HAVE THAT MUCH CONTROL OVER HER LIFE…EXCEPT THE LORD JESUS CHRIST HIMSELF….LADIES ITS A NEW DAY U NEED TO LEARN TO WALK ON YOUR OWN AND STOP DEPENDING ON MEN..WE DONT “NEED” A MAN IN OUR LIVES BUT WE DO “WANT” THEM… I WOULD HAVE POLITELY PACKED HIS SHYT AND TIED A BIG RED ASS BOW AROUND HIS ASS AND HAND DELIVERED HIM TO A BITCH B4 I EVEN THINK OF FUCKIN UP A NAIL OR MY HAIR-DO OVER HIS CLOWN ASS…AND THATS MY WORD…..
first off who sits there and let ANYBODY throw grease on them …it took time for the grease to get hot so you mean to tell me he waited on homegirl to come back with the s*** DAM that is deep. THAT is tooo much granted he cheated but you could have left his sorry ass cause im taking it this bout aint his first ime cheating. She do need her ass beat she went too far and they need to lock her stupid ass up, he funny part is I bet the crazy hooker running around like its cute if the man aint beat your head in why would you do that
im a crazy bitch but even crazy bitches got they limits…. my guy been extra nice since i showed him that picture i just had to tell him dont worry baby
There is NO justification for this! Final straw or not, she needs to be locked up and get some mental health help. If she was being abused, there are other remedies. He lied. Leave his a**. He cheated, again, leave his a**. Sh*t f*ck his brother, take pics and post them on fb if you must, but this is just plain CRAZY.
I have NO sympathy or empathy for her.
Now if he had molested my child, all bets are off……
Oh shyyyyyyyyt daaaaayyyyuuuuuuummm. Wow i fel badd 4him he cant even do anythng anymor, cant even piss prolly
come on now this is sad! he don’t belong to her we have to be stonger then that . well get your go to jail free card dont cry now boo. and you jaged yourself. dam we need prayer. lord help her.
In total agreement with Gemini Girl
This was really not called for…move on!
Wow… That’s a terrible pic. I read someone’s comment about it possibly being fake bc he’s standing up versus lying down and not bleeding. It’s possible this pic was taken after he got cleaned up. You can’t put bandages on something like that. Then again, why is he walking around? I hope it is fake.
If it isn’t, my prayers are with both of them. First, you should never let anyone control your emotions or thoughts to that extent. It isn’t healthy, even if the consequences aren’t as serious as this. Second, you never know who you’re really dealing with until you hurt or disappoint them. It’s a shame to he had to pay such a high price to learn who she is.
There really is no excuse for this. However, the only people, other than God, who really knows what was going on between these individuals are these individuals. Maybe he gave her an incurable disease as a result of his cheating. Maybe she was unbalanced and this tipped her over the edge. We really don’t know.
Finally, only God can judge others. Since none of us are Him, we should just pray for everyone involved. Hopefully, that doesn’t include children
F*CK ALL THEE CRAZY B*TCHES THAT FEEL SHE WAS JUSTIFIED DOING THIS…..THIS WHORE SHOULD BE PUT TO DEATH FOR WHAT SHE DID TO ANOTHER PERSON!!! #DEATH2CRAZYWHORES
Is this real, how the hell is he standing there taking a picture, shouldn’t he be in a hospital bed wrapped up and drugged up for the pain?
I agree with cybil but i have to admit a female do that to me ‘am killing her entire family.If he gave her aids i understand.Karma is going to work that arse.It may even come back on her child if she has one.Women are thee most emotional creatures on this planet.Long time ago my girl said she had to be honest and admit she could snap and chop off my monster while sleep if i cheated rather than just walk away.So fella’s keep it one hundred.{LOL}
I’M NOT CONDONING THIS BEHAVIOR BUT I CAN DEFINITELY UNDERSTAND WHERE SHE’S COMING FROM! EVERY1 IS LOOKING AT HOW UGLY THIS LOOKS AND IS FEELING SORRY FOR HIM! BUT B/C OF HIS DECEPTION, SHE MAY ALREADY HAD AIDS OR HIV! IF SHE NEVA CAUGHT HIM AND CONTINUED TO TRUST HIM, HOW UGLY WOULD SHE LOOKED AT DEATH’S DOOR FROM FULL BLOWN AIDS. HAVE U EVER SAW THAT I HAVE! IN UR LAST DAYS THEY LIVE N A TENT! IF ANYBODY VISIT THEY WEAR A SUIT THAT LOOKS THEY R GOING N2 SPACE…LETS SAYS GOD FORBIDS, SHE HAS IT NOW. SHE LOOKING AT WHAT? 50 PILLS A DAY 4 THE REST OF HER LIFE! CONSTANT DOCTOR VISITS, MEDICINE CHANGES AND REACTIONS, THE STIGMA, THE MENTAL AND EMOTIONAL PAIN OF WAITING 90 DAYS TO SEE IF SHE HAS CONTRACTED FROM THE TIME SHE CAUGHT HIM CHEATING! A LOT OF TIME FAMILY AND FRIENDS ACT FUNNY WHEN U DOWN… ONLY GOD KNOWS WHAT ELSE SHE’S CAUGHT! I HATE TO SAY IT BUT HE GOT OFF EASY!
I think everyone has said every thing that could passably be said about this. She should get 25 to life for this one no if’s ans or buts about it !!!!. If a man had did this to a woman they would throw the book at him. But I bet 100.00 that she will not get so much as five years in prison for this. Place your bet if you think I’m joking.
****HOT***** gives a new meaning to burning down there ha
while I am sure the victim is affected, he should have seen the signs he was f*ckin someone who’d have such a regard for him and his penis,.. I gbuess he thought about his penis more?? this action shows she couldnt care less and would have no remorse of his outcome. Personally, I have no remorse either.
Whn youre grown, you make choices that have good or bad outcomes…simple as that..his choice in lifestyle and women led to his outcome. Their is an effect good or bad for each cause and whatever the outcome is …deal with it! men must forget women, in this case, can get way too emotional.
She say he want his cake and eat it too but she wasnt having dat! BUT, she is no more responsible for this than he… just like date rape/ you go over someone house @ 2am barely clad, expect sexual encounter and dont claim rape! she didnt “rape” him, he’s been there. (metaphor)
ultimately, dont f*** around with a person like dat cuz you will get “BURNED” (literally)
yes this was crude. but it speaks a different volume to me than whats published. i think he gave her an STD and she made sure he could never lie and say he wasnt burnt. that would be my reason for this. only justification i can come up with… in other words she obviously saved someone elses life! kudos to the crazies!
man i gues she gave him the burn notice…. man that was all bad and its not funny but im sorry readin some of these comments had me crakin up@ dkeyz414…… i jus dont know about these people in the world today u jus really dont know who you deelin wit…. hey we jus gotta stay prayed up for real….
I thank the lord for self control. I never in a million years want to cause someone this much pain.
WHO EVER HE CHEATED ON HER WITH I HOPE IT WAS WORTH IT CAUSE HE FUCKED FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE LOL
WOW, im speechless! I mean….was it really THAT serious? I know being cheated on hurts, but this is extreme. I also look at this as a lesson, it’s time out for cheating, ppl’s feelings are involved and everyone can’t deal with that kind of pain and heartache. Be faithful or be burned……..OBVIOUSLY LMBO
See fellas if you come home your girl has the grease cooking and you don’t see not piece of chicken or fish, don’t say nothing, just grab your stuff and boogie on out. Or better yet play Madden 11 !!!!!
Althrough this is a crazy thing to do to someone. Man for at least 50 Years have thought it alright to cheat on a wm. I have No trust in man because they have proved me right over and over again. This is so bad it should be a wake up CALL to ALL Men Women dont have time for the GAMES anymore. I dont think she should be Put in Jail Just all it even for the Years and Years of cheating man getting away with the bullsh@#
That is unsat and she need to go to jail.
wow this is crazy, but we must protect ourselves until we know we r truly in a committed relationship we must. love does not hurt only lies and deception, i know i found out my boyfriend has a wife and i truly asked that question before we exchanged numbers and after almost 2 yrs this comes out, i felt deceived and betrayed because i don’t do married men but i guess i was such a good woman he had to lie to kick it, however most men with low self esteem r weak and need to feel like they still have it. shout out to all the black, real, strong and honest men who have not been affected by willie lynch, one day we will have a strong community of good black men i have faith, however for now i’m rollin with others!
Another senseless act in our community. The lady lost her mind! Who in the hell throws grease on a man penis for cheating? Fortunately the man is alive and his life will go on… He may even profit from this unfortunate incident (Oprah, Trya Banks, Magazines, Porno movies LOL, Etc). On the other hand, the aggressor will serve time and her life will not be the same again (which is so unfortunate). There is clearly no winner in this story. Ladies, do not try this at home! There is more was to resolve situations such as this.
First of all, none of us know what he did. NEVER say what you couldn’t do until you have been cheated on. There are many scenarios that we can draw up in our head as to what happened. No one deserved to be put through pain, whether that’s emotional pain from the cheat itself or the physical pain that you may get after your man/woman cheated and you have some nasty STD or even HIV. How do we even know he cheated.
We don’t know if she caught him in the act, we don’t know if he gave her HIV, we don’t know if he was screwing another man, we don’t know if he was molesting her child, we don’t know ANYTHING. Until you’ve been there, don’t say what you won’t do.
I am with the other lady who commented. If you want to have multiple partners, don’t get in a relationship. Just that simple. Not a proponent of violence or cheating but these are the consequences!
Do you want to know something, a cheating man or woman is only cheating on himself or herself, not him or her.
It is true that women cheat, but I don’t think he just cheated once…Most cheater say that it won’t happen again then they do the same action again and again and again when they think that the coast is clear and everything look cool…I think the reason this look so bad to us is because we can see the burn…The pain and the look is the same as if he gave her a Sexually Transmitted Diseases like Aids and herpes…Same pain and same look but it is located inside the body…
That’s some ol bullshit. Who knows what he did! He could’ve been caught with his pants down or maybe burned the girl maybe she was just a wreck a suspevted him of cheating. The time should fit the crime. I mean what kind of woman would let a man run you into this type of rage. I mean did she do this to her daddy or whoever rapped her when he slept with her mom? Some women are clueless to there emotions and live there life blindly and take it out ont the first one that breaks the barrier. And note! If you take to the story and comment like niggaz need to quit cheating… bitch ass dumb girls quit dating niggaz! Dumb bitches date niggaz. Women deal wit men!
man i would get better an beat that bitch ass like she stole sumthing
is this what we as black people have been reduced to? how can we expect the rest of society see us as nothing more than animals if this is what we show them. no matter what the man did there is no justification to do this people. the woman who did this should be sued for damages and imprisoned for the rest of her life. we have to realize that NO ONE is at the status where someone wont cheat on them, lie to them or disrespect them. even celebrities and more important people get disappointed we are dealing with imperfect human beings, it happens and this is not the way you reat to it. to the people that condone this you are just as insane, get help before you do something that gets you killed or lands you in prison for the rest of your life. when you see warning signs that your woman has serious mental issues end the relationship nicely and permanently dont go back for sex or anything else, end it.if you are a cheater dont get into a serious relationship there are women out there who dont mind if both people sleep around and long as they know.be up front. part of the problem is we try to live the stereotypes that are placed on us of trying to be a pimp thug or player, and dont realize that lifestyle works on the song or in the movies but real life has consequences. and I think both parties in this case realized that too late. to people being cheated on is not that serious! if your worried about STD’s use protection no matter how long your with that person. someone hurt your feelings or broke your trust you disconnect from them and go on with your life its that simple, it has no bearing on your self worth or how people view you it happens to everybody. emotions heal over time, and the cheater just made you better able to recognize the the types of people you dont want to be with. it’s all part of life learning process that you have to go through to learn from the experience.
So what is she …a mannizer ? Can’t find that one in the dictionary can ya ?.
And what would you call him …?
Battered and fried …?
The NEW LAW IS JUST WALK ….AWAY RIGHT
THAT’S WHAT MEN ARE TOLD. JUST WALK AWAY FROM EVERYTHING YOUR LIFE AND EVERY THING YOU WORKED FOR OVER THE YEARS jUSt wAlk….AwAY ……
SO NOW THAT THE SHOE IS ON THE OTHER FOOT
DO WE JUST LOOK THE OTHER WAY LIKE NOTHING HAS HAPPENED. ???
AMERICA ‘S LAWS ARE SO JACKED UP,ONE SIDED AND UNFAIR I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO THINK ABOUT THIS PLACE ANY MORE SOME TIMES I WISH THERE WAS A MOTHER COUNTRY FOR BLACK PEOPLE TO CALL HOME.
I WOULD SURELY GO BACK TO IT AND NEVER RETURN.
BUT WE AS BLACK PEOPLE DON’T HAVE THAT CHOICE NOW DO WE?
WHITE AMERICA NO LONGER HAS A NEED FOR THE KKK,WILLIE LYNCH OR EVEN KILLER COP’S SKIN HEAD’S
OR NONE OF THAT SHIT… US BLK FOLK R DOING A MIGHTY FINE JOB BOSS ..WILL TAKE YA GUNS AND KILL UP EVERY THAG FA YA BOSS … GIVE US MO DRUG’S AND GUN’S BOSS GOT TO HELP YA KILL UP ALL THE NIGGAZ
( IN MY CRIS ROCK VOICE) PLEASE BOSS COME ON LET ME HELP KILL UP ALL THE PO BLACK FOLKS BOSS I’M ON YO SIDE MASSA LETZ JUST KILL ALL THEM NIGGAZZZ
SMH
THE BOTTOM LINE IS….THE MAN SHOULD NOT HAVE CHEATED! PERIOD! IT’S DANGEROUS TO GO AROUND CHEATING ON SOMEONE. NOW IF HE GAVE THE LADY HIV FOR HIS RISKY BEHAVIOR NO ONE WOULD SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT. LEARNING LESSON TO ALL THE CHEATERS….BE HONEST IF YOU DON’T WANT THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH ANYMORE. STOP BEING SELFISH AND WANTING YOUR CAKE & EATING TOO. HE GOT WHAT HE DESERVED…. THE GUY WAS A LOSER!
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Whether it’s true or not.. this is horrible! What makes it worse are the comments this story has prompted here. Out of all the comments, I see one person (kittyjones) has a clear understanding of the lesson to be learned. No matter it be a male or female, NOBODY should ever allow another individual to consume them entirely (mind, body and soul) to the point where they commit acts such as this. I feel for this man and what he has endured.. for cheating? As long as we have legs, walking away is ALWAYS a option. This woman needs help, seriously!! Rather then just sending her ass to jail and letting her sit there (as many have suggested).. Someone needs to send her on a journey to find herself, clearly she is lost.
Well done!
Mary Mother of Gawd!!! Now that’s hawt!
iI GUESS IF SHE NOT GETTING IT NO ONE WILL YIKES!
IF IT WAS ME….I WOULD OF KILLED THAT BITCH…YU DNT DO NO SHIT LYK THAT NO MATTA WAT HE DID
Just walk away people. If I do wrong or you do wrong, just dismiss me and keep it moving. I don’t want to lose my life or my livelihood. Sometimes once you turn that corner, there is no going back. I’ve been the bad ass impatient chick with my way or the highway mentality, not saying that was her case, but I am so glad I grew up. I also hate to see good dick go to waste. (I’m just saying)
Thats fucked up… but he may have deserved it… not because he lied but because he got that dumbass batman tat on his arm… lol… but on another note… maybe she was goin to take him back and jus wanted to burn any STDs on… betta he doesnt have n e after the shit… what happens when buddy gets hard… i bet that shit hurts like hell…
did the burns make it swell up and shrink or was it that small to begin wit… it needed to be burned or pumped… shit somethin… LMAO… i’m talkin shit… i really feel for buddy, i can only imagine how loud he screamed…
SHE BEEN WATCHING WAAAAAY TO MUCH MADEA!!!!!! That don’t make any kind of sense…she need her butt kicked!
Dang!!! That sucks
Wow. I just got out of a bad marriage. Abuse, cheating, hiding money, ruining my credit… But even I wouldn’t do this to him. And Lord knows he deserved it. I know anger can get the best of some people sometimes, but she could’ve walked away and let God handle the revenge. I’m not saying it’s easy to do! But now the civil case is going to follow her for the rest of her life. The man who pushed her over the head will forever hang over her head. Hot grits is one thing, but hot GREASE? No, sweetie. I understand how dirty some men could be. For all we know, she could’ve caught him in bed with another man. They could’ve been married with kids and all that. But making sure he never has sex again is a sentence that isn’t in the woman’s hands. Unless, of course, he raped somebody.
Oops. Pushed her over the edge*, not head. Ahahaha.
HAHA! I hope it was used fish grease! lol
This is so sad this lady is truly insecure about herself to do this to him. Just move on and get you someone else. She need angry management classes and jail time.
This women must have lost it. Guys put women through so much and the same for women with guys. I was in a 13year relationship were we had been through hell and back. Talking about him beating me, cheating, and a whole lot of everything you could possibly name. Thank God with a lot of pray I walked out of that relationship with not a scratch on me but mentally I will not take that abuse again. The first sign I will keep walking.
But this lady, she lost it and couldn’t come back, I been there where I wanted to do him as much and more harm as he had done to me. But again I prayed abut it and God brought me out. This lady may not have known just what to do.
Therefore, people unles you have been where she was don’t condemn her action because she has to answer to God. I still say she lost it and couldn’t control herself. (What man will make us do!)
I’ma female and there is NO justification for this. If he cheated, and I’m sure it’s not the first time, she should have left and never looked back. She had a choice from day one and she chose to take the bullshit so there is no justification for what she did. She needs to have the same thing happen to her as punishment for being the dumbest bitch alive. Just like Bobbit needed her tits cut off and every dumb ass woman out there who threw hot grits, lye or boiling water on her abusive, cheating man needs the same thing done to them. You CAN walk away. ANY woman who justifies shit like this is just as ignorant as the women who does these things.
thats is so fu*ked up , i mean damn ,yeah, he cheated but that is no reason to do that,the woman who did this should be locked up because she did not have to take it there .yeah her feelings was hurt but it didnt cause and pain like he has to go through forever now .and if any of her new men find out about that ….. they are going to leave her or be very scared of her …. thats just so wrong!
I wanna see what this bitch looks like …need a permanant injunction to prevent her ass from comming within a 100 yds of a dick ever again, I dont feel safe post up a crazy bitch alert website.her ass is marked soon as she step into prison I got a jail house dyke ready to break somein off in her ass …gone in 60 seconds.
What can you say, I’ve always said,” women act off emotions and think later.” She was dead wrong: A man has a right to do what he wants with his MAN DANGLE. She should have just left him along and found another tree limb. This is the best example of why we should NEVER have a woman President or in any other power capacity!
he can do whatever he wants with his dick !!! she needs to go to jail !!
i sorry, but there was no call for that no matter what he did. we all have a choice in life and we the right to choose our own path and which way it takes us. if she did not like the path she was on,CHOOSE another path. no man OR woman is worth bodly harm to ourself or others. this woman needs more than jail.
Now this is outrageous…if he was cheating and she knew if why not just leave him alone. All of this was not called for and he had to know that she was off before this happened. I recommend that he use some Mederma cream to lessen the scarring when it is healed a little better to bring his natural skin tones back. The other thing is she needs some serious therapy and they need to both stop having casual sex. Get your lives in order and stop setting yourselves up for things like this to happen. I do think she needs jail time..this is horrible. He will think twice before cheating again and I guess that was her motivation! SAD! Nobody wins!
thats fucked up keep your shittttt to yourself, always closed one door before you open another.
Man real talk she was out of order for that, and yes she does belong behind bars that man is going to be scare of every women because that’s stuck in his head,body and soul, I feel sorry for him and the gurl that this to him watch out your next saddddddd.
the Bible says ‘thou shall not commit adultry’ at the same time ‘vengeance is of the Lord’ Both the man and woman are crazy and are wrong. The action of the woman is nothing but ‘killing’. —- but i would not be surprised if the same dick goes back to the woman after healing.
This had to make that person feel really bad. Sometimes loves need a limit but just like i’ve read some people just need to honest and stop doing dirt. I’m not saying what girlfriend did is right but just think about it it’s not even about being in love or just wanting that person to want u it’s about being hurt and at the time she probably was thinking hurt me and i’ll hurt u. But although this was very sad and bad lol….. I bet that nigga won’t cheat again. It is what it is and sometimes u never know what i kind of fool u got ur self involve with so the best thing to do is stop being a whore and keep it 100 with the one u with if u don’t want that person anymore leave alone. I honestly can’t say what i would have done in the situation but hell no dick is worth pulling time for and besides he wasn’t even packing lol……..
no one deserves that kind of punishment, she sud be put in jail and when she get’s out have to pay for his medical car for the rest of his life, that was real stupid on her part.
that is so sad. women need to learn how to control their anger problems. you should never do that to someone no matter how mad you get…wow. I feel sorry for him.
BAHAHAHA!!!
That Son Of A B*tch Deserved It!!
I Hope His Whole D*ck Falls Off!!!
HAHAHAHAA!!!
OMG THAT IS AWFUL! That bytch needs to go to jail for the rest of her LIFE! Nobody deserves to have something like this done! If he cheated, that was his choice! Its his life! If you dont like it, cuss him out and leave him! This is not something you do to someone!
He could die from that! She maimed him for life! Imagine how much pain that poor man is in! I feel so sorry for him! Women need to stop being so evil, and angry! There is NO excuse for that! A lot of women act like victims but look at the things some women are capable of!
U dont do something like this to someone unless theyre trying to murder you! he should sue her for everything she has and send her to jail forever!
YoursTruly youre an ignorant azzhole! if someone pours hot grease on your twat i guess youll deserve it
for her to be able to inflict such pain on a person she “loved” means she never loved him anyway so I dont know why she cared if he was cheating. that was nothing but ego! i hate this woman and I dont even know her. No man deserves this type of punishment for cheating! I could see if he was a child rapist or murderer or something. but all he did was cheat! wtf that bytch needs to get a life! someone should pour hot grease on her twat and see how she likes it!
I hope the psycho Bitch went to jail!
I don’t think what this female did was right but at the same time, her action is nothing different than any other action taken when one has been deceived. People can easily say how she could have just moved on and dated someone else but the heart is nothing to play with especially if it’s a situation where a STD was passed on. This guy could have given her AIDs or something and she was just teaching him a lesson…who knows! Everyone’s situation is different but when there is a lot at stake and a lot was invested in the person that cheated, it can cause another to snap and do drastic things no different than the retaliation again someone who has deceived another regarding drugs, domestic violence or any other issue that would cause the need to retaliate. All of this is a result of feeling deceived, disrespected etc… This is why you should always be mindful of how you treat others. The signs may not be there all the time….in some cases, it takes a really bad situation for certain actions to be taken.
Wow, that is an unfortunate injury!!
Karma ain’t nothing nice…
Well.. clearly she went off on him. People act foolish when people mistreat them. Men need to be up front and say, I don’t want a one woman relationship and it will not be as bad. Men don’t realize how cheating makes a woman feel. She went to far with the hot grease, she could have killed him, but when the adrenaline is raised people make mistakes.
The no count cheating bastard!
i mean this shit is foul but shid hee shoulda never cheated if he didnt cheat he still would be able to use his dick!
How many of you women would be defending the guy if he threw hot grease on the woman for cheating? This is pretty much assault with a deadly weapon. Im glad you condone such things that would most likely send a person to jail, and Im sorry if you lack the capacity to just walk away from a situation like this and you would rather live with things that cause you to be miserable. I also dont think deception is a valid reason for doing this. After all, she had to get him naked in the kitchen near a hot stove. She better hope she gets a female judge! lol
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This is pure wickedness that is against humanity.
This may look real bad to the eye and looking her it may look like nothing is wrong with her just her feelings are but. We all don’t not if he gave AIDS OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT. THEY BOTH WAS WRONG BUT WHEN YOU PLAY A GAME THAT 1 day may win and 1 day you may lose you stand that chance on seeing how you will lose. He is marked for life for his selfish doings. In the time of rage you don’t know what you may do don’t judge. They both have attempt to murder over there heads! Just think about it.
Yeah that something I would do ,cause I kno keep a lot of things to my self until some one piss me off and it all fall out on that person but u get what u deserve
Listen. To the gentleman who made the comment that men have the right to do whatever they want to do with their genitals…. I say maybe so. But, when they use their genitals in ways that cause pain and suffering to other individuals, then they need to be prepared to accept the consequences. You don’t just get to walk away scot-free and not experience some of the pain you’ve caused others to feel. It’s called what goes around comes around and you ain’t getting past it. I agree these are extreme consequences, and I do NOT condone what this woman has done. However, it seems to me this brutha brought this on himself. He chose to do whatever he wanted and I guess, so did she. You know, you can only kick a dog so many times before he bites your ass. Who knows how much abuse he has handed out to this woman? How do any of us know that she hasn’t tried to walk away and been dragged back and beaten up for it? Abuse like this doesn’t just happen. It has to be fed and nurtured over time before it erupts so dangerously. My personal opinion is that this man has probably treated this woman so badly for so long that she finally snapped. Anybody ever heard of “battered woman syndrome” or “PTSD?” Wow, I can’t believe how judgemental some of these comments have been! No one has any idea what her pain was like. I think maybe it must have been excruciating in the extreme for her to react in this manner. Emotional pain is ALWAYS more damaging than physical pain. More dangerous, too. I’m sorry, but I just don’t feel any sympathy for this guy. That’s what can happen when you walk around thinking because you’re a man you can use your “man dangle” however you please. You have to understand that a woman can do whatever she please, too.
If you are think she is justified you are crazy no human deserve this treatment period.
wowzers is all i can say
Sorry, I am a woman and I have been cheated on before, but I moved on and didn’t maim anyone. Heart feelings and a broken heart does NOT justify this action. You’re right karma is b***h, but it works both ways. Anyone who could get this angry for something like that had no life and was looking for someone else to give her one. Lock her psycho a$$ away!
@Miz CJ:
To try and justify what this woman did to this man is nuts – period. Folks need to recognize that YOU CAN NOT CONTROL THE ACTIONS OF OTHERS, the only actions you can control are your own. You can’t make someone love you, stay with you or even remain faithful to you. If you are not getting the treatment you want and/or feel you deserve – then move on. Stop making excuses for her and people like her (because it’s not just women who act like this) she’s an abuser and deserves to go to jail.
Folks kill me with this dumb ish. Grow up and get mentally healthy!
OMG WTF that shit look like it hurt
Ok guys, this is really one of those urban myths. The actual picture is of a 14 year old boy in Guyana. Please don’t get caught up in this devisive issue. Here is the link: http://propagandapress.wordpress.com/2009/11/01/guyana-torture-update-police-burns-genitals-of-teenager/
And if it WERE true, this is how I would feel about it (notice the tense of my verbs): Men, and women lie all the time…about what they have, what they want, and especially about relationships. Yes, a person can hurt you so bad you THINK about revenge, but the truth is the best revenge is moving on, to someone better, and being happier than you ever were with him/her. Some things never heal completely such as rape, physical and or mental abuse, but that is no cause, at the end of the day, to go that far. Ok, so if this scenario were to happen, and a woman did this, in the end he has won, because although he’s physically scarred (and you can best believe there is a woman out there ready to mother him and condemn her), the woman who would have commited this crime life is completely over! Speaking as a woman who has been cheated on, and mentally and physically abused by an ex-husband, the one thing he cannot stand is the fact that I had the strength to pull myself up and go further and do better than his sorry a$$ could dream of being in his BEST dreams! I took back my power. Don’t let anyone ever take you away from who you are at your core.
If by chance this story WAS true, even IF he was beating her, then the best revenge would be to have HIS a$$ locked up. This story is just causing a wedge between us when we, as a people, have enough issues. Don’t get caught up in this fake story!
this lady was really mad well shit happens i bet she wont fuck that again and thats away to get rid of an std lol. lol and he wont be getting any pussy for a while cuz i know that shit hurts.lol bet he wont cheat on her again if she takes him back.but she was worng she should have just left but he wanted him to b hurt 2 o well not my issue.
o and atleast he still has his ass lol. he can have her kiss that
Wow…… ummm WOW did you even read the comment aboe you? o.O Says PLAIN AS DAY that this chit right here ninja is a fake STORY ….. No scorned gf burning her bf but something else all together …….
lol meant above not aboe
That bitch is truly crazy…Giving up your life and freedom over a penis. I’m not for violence, but I would truly understand if he killed the bitch.
This is just a mess!!!! I know how it feels to be cheated on and be the one he is cheating with…but come on this is just ridiculous. I do know back in the day there was not much they did to women who went to these extreme measures, but in this day in time they need to go to jail… because if a man did this mess they would be in jail. I am not for cheating and have been on both sides…I just simply say walk away and move on and I know it is hard but there are other things you can do before you inflict bodily harm…
This woman doesn’t have issues, she has SUBSCRIPTIONS! That was very over the top to put it mildly……and I’ve been through some shit close to that….I told this one woman I was dating a few years back that I thought she’d be happier with someone else and her reply was to dump the contents of a boiling hot crock-pot in my lap, then throw dishes at me, and when she ran out of dishes the silverware and cooking knives started coming, and then the next day she tried to run me over, so I sympathize with dude. True he was wrong for cheating but girl’s reaction was totally unjustified, and she should pay accordingly.
Ok guys, this is really one of those urban myths. The actual picture is of a 14 year old boy in Guyana. Please don’t get caught up in this devisive issue. Here is the link: http://propagandapress.wordpress.com/2009/11/01/guyana-torture-update-police-burns-genitals-of-teenager/
And if it WERE true, this is how I would feel about it (notice the tense of my verbs): Men, and women lie all the time…about what they have, what they want, and especially about relationships. Yes, a person can hurt you so bad you THINK about revenge, but the truth is the best revenge is moving on, to someone better, and being happier than you ever were with him/her. Some things never heal completely such as rape, physical and or mental abuse, but that is no cause, at the end of the day, to go that far. Ok, so if this scenario were to happen, and a woman did this, in the end he has won, because although he’s physically scarred (and you can best believe there is a woman out there ready to mother him and condemn her), the woman who would have commited this crime life is completely over! Speaking as a woman who has been cheated on, and mentally and physically abused by an ex-husband, the one thing he cannot stand is the fact that I had the strength to pull myself up and go further and do better than his sorry a$$ could dream of being in his BEST dreams! I took back my power. Don’t let anyone ever take you away from who you are at your core.
If by chance this story WAS true, even IF he was beating her, then the best revenge would be to have HIS a$$ locked up. This story is just causing a wedge between us when we, as a people, have enough issues. Don’t get caught up in this fake story!
how could you people be so fucking retarded?
this is a photo of a 14 year old boy who was tortured by the police
http://propagandapress.wordpress.com/2009/11/01/guyana-torture-update-police-burns-genitals-of-teenager/
seems like you clowns are willing to do anything for a quick penny
nelly avila moreno
i dont care what you all say i would like it and still stick it up my vagina any day
@you freakin mama: Sooooooo, does that mean you’re a pedophile? Cuz THAT is a picture of a 14 yr old after he was TORTURED! Ahem…need therapy much? Folks should really read before they comment. Try that sometime…k???
While I don’t condone action to this extreme, I certainly can understand the emotion that caused this. Cheating on your woman is probably the lowest thing you can possibly do. Not only are you telling her that she is not good enough, you are telling her that she does not even deserve the respect of breaking off the relationship before dipping your dick into another woman. It’s low, it’s demeaning, and it certainly deserves the DESIRE to want to hurt you this way! However that does not mean we have the right to do so. It’s a shame she did not have the emotional control or common sense to draw the line between what she wanted to do, and what she did do. A sledge hammer to his car would have been a more appropriate response.
TRUE OR NOT…WE DO HAVE WOMEN OUT HERE WHO DOES DUMB SHYT CUZ A MAN CHEAT.. IF YOU DONT LOVE YASELF TOTALLY U CANT LOVE ANOTHER AND THATS WHERE MOST WOMEN GO WRONG….CUZ A MAN TELLS U HE LOVES U…DONT THINK THAT MAN BELONGS TO U…IM A WOMAN AND I DONT CONDON VIOLENCE BE IT BODILY HARM OR HARM TO PROPERTY AT ALL…AND IF IT WAS A WOMAN THAT GOT CHEATED ON SILENCE IS THE BEST KILLA FROM A WOMAN TO A MAN…CUT THAT FUKKA OUT YA LIFE PERMANENTLY…AND WATCH HOW HE SWEAT YOUR EVERY MOVE…ESPECIALLY IF HE THOUGHT HE HAD THAT MUCH CONTROL OVER YOU…WE ARE NOT PERFECT HUMAN BEINGS AND CHEATING IS WHAT ALOT OF GUYS DO….WE CANT CHANGE THAT…ONLY THEY CAN…SO WHEN ENTERING A RELATIONSHIP DONT GO IN HEART FIRST….GO IN HEAD FIRST AND WATCH THE DIFFERENCE IN HOW HE TREATS YOU AS A STRONG (BLACK) WOMAN….IM BLACK BUT THAT GOES FOR ALL RACES….. ESPECIALLY IF U R RAISING DAUGHTERS….SUMTIMES GIRLS DO WHAT THEY SEE MOMMA DO…YA FEEL ME
I am not sure what too say about this.. He was fucking around so it was either he burn her sexually or she burn him physically… This is sad leave him and find somebody that deserves you because obviously he did not.. I will pray for them both
WOW!!! Thats some scary stuff. The best revenge is leaving and never turning back. The man or lady doing the cheeting will soon see what they did and regret it. Now they can not have that person back and thats what gets to them.
@Smilesallaround Um cheating is bad but no it’s NOIT the lowest thing you can do to your girl friend.Raping her, stealing from her, beating her, mentally torturing her, making her an emotional hostage, killing her…ALL wore than cheating. Look – even nice guys – guys that you would never expect to cheat do – as do women. That said if she is capable of this, what might she have been like to go out with? I suspect he was probably no winner either bot no, I can’t understand the “emotion behind it.” That’s just retarded. If she REALLY wanted to get even in a cosmic sense she should have fucked his best friend or his brother and told him but hot grease? No I’m sorry – no excuses. That’s fucked up.
Well Ladies not only is that sad. That will stop him from cheating again. Cheating is all about the game “Hunt”. Men will do what you allow them to. If his next girl see’s this and then meets him I guess she’ll know before she ask what happened. I bet he’ll never get another BJ unless she likes it well done.
Oh My Goodness!!! Some people just don’t know when to walk away. This is absolute madness. I’m not saying that cheating is right but it sure as hell is not worth this type of payback.
I know he’s not going to be able to have any kids after this.
All of you people on here overanalyzing this on here are fucking nuts!! When a man catches his woman cheating and blows here fucking head off everyone agrees it’s wrong!! The only issue here is violence toward a human being without the threat of violence against them. She was dead wrong… Period. @Gemini Girl.. You are a fuckin lunatic. Cheating isn’t ever balanced by violence … People out of control of their emotions and dealing with it this way , premeditated harm, is bananas.
Violence is never right, but it’s funny to see how men are so angry about this but how many of you feel this way when men blow women’s heads off, not for cheating, but for leaving him? No doubt about it, this chick was WRONG and there is no justification, but when you play games with people, stuff like this happens, right or not. And no one should be making judgements on these folks because none of us know them.
Anyways, at the end of the day, men and women BOTH, stop playing all these games with people and tell the TRUTH. No one does something like this if they know where they stand. They just don’t. So women and men both, stop all this “player” BS and be honest with someone. A REAL player is honest and tells their mate where they stand. I know a lot of my guy friends brag about all the women they screw, but as soon as I ask them, if they think she is stupid and is not out there doing the same, they get fighting mad! See, that’s just arrogant. You can do it, but they can’t. That’s just not realistic. Bottom line is, if you treat someone wrong, be realistic, its going to come back on you somehow. This goes for chicks and dudes BOTH.
This is just pure evil. There is no justification for a man cheating n even less for a woman who would maim someone like this. Ladies, when u heard of women having their clitoris cut off, u were mortified…why is this any different. everyone has been cheated on at some point in their lives, n if we did this 2 all cheaters (male and female), the world would be a horrible, childless place. as a woman, i say FRY HER ASS!
Well can’t be worried about him ever cheating on anyone ever again…My question…Did she get arrested for this? That had to be very painful. He probably bakes all is food now cause hot grease would be a terrible reminder to him….
I don’t care what he did.. That was just going to far.. LET HIME GO 1st!!!
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Wow, that is a large burn area too!!! Just last year I spilled hot bacon grease on myself and ended up having 2nd-3rd degree burns. This man has several areas of 3rd degree as well as 2nd degree. No doubt he will be high on percocet and wrapping his shit up mummy style for at least a few months. He definitely will have some nerve damage too, but I’m more worried about the fact that his balls look like they melted to his thighs. end result? he will probably still be able to use the equipment, but there is a large chance that it won’t feel as intense for him ever again. Moral to this story? Choose to not date crazy bitches, or don’t cheat on them if you do…. She should definitely go to jail for this, and he will either learn his lesson, or hate women forever and fuck with them even harder.
Guys should be very careful the kind of gurl you go out with. too ugly bad.
What happened to this man is a tragedy, in all of the comments here I don’t see anyone admitting that they know this couple at all, you are all surmising what the reason was behind what she did. No matter what her reasoning she still commited an assult and that may or may not get her time in jail. As for him, I don’t think he will ever cheat again and hopefully he will get counceling for the trama associated with this incident.
As a chef I know that you have to wait at least 10 min to heat oil hot enough to do that kind of damage so would that not come under premeditated as she would have to take the time to pour the oil into a pot and heat it , or was she a cook in a restaurant and threw it on him when she seen him at her work, there are so many factors here that we the outside world don’t know about.
Men or Women don’t justify her, she was dead wrong, she had to plan this action and she should pay for her malice. Im sure she’ll spend years away hopefully she’ll get the mental help she needs. For him, dummy you can’t go around hurting people and not expect some reaction, You got caught and paid for your indiscretions.
Funny after reading the Headline it said “girl” caught “man” cheating Hmmmm, what is that Pedaphilia?
all i can said was damn tht fuck up. she should go jail for what she did 2 her man body. what if tht man dont have kids and in tht future he met some1 and tell them tht he cant have kids at all. what if their ask him y.
You know, thats why I switched to men…….ok you guys, start hatin because I know you’re dying to.
i’d pure a can of lye on the side of her face leaving one eye good so she could see herself and in her snatch so she could remember what it was supposed to be used for
OMFG! It does hurt to be cheated on, no doubt. But this is just waaaaay too much. It’s inhumane and she should spend HELLA time in jail… I’ve been cheated on and never ever once did I wanna do something like this to any guy. People do fuck up but they don’t deserve to be tortured an mutilated for it. This is just crazy and unjustifiable. smh. Women… please let’s get a grip.
DDDDAAAAAMMMMMMNNNNNN HE GOT FUCKED UP…BUT MEN THINK WOMEN IZ A DAMN JOKE….
Women there is no excuse for what this women did.This guy has to live mutalated for the rest of his life.No mistake like cheating which im sure the women who did this has probably done to someone else should be punished like this.It’s just fukin sick
This is bad, I will give you that BUT…..women get KILLED all the time… he got burned. Guess what??? HE STILL HAS HIS LIFE. So obviously he needs to learn from his mistakes and she needs to find someone she can trust.
Lorraina Bobbit cut her husband’s dick off and threw it away. HE didn’t press charges and still wanted to be with her.
Keke Wyatt (singer) stabbed her husband but he didn’t press charges and he forgave her.
Women are not taking that shit anymore and the men are paying the consequences.
Its not cool to cheat anymore. Its just plain stupid.
Nah this is sad. I mean if u catch a man cheatin on u. Go back and cheat on him.. WAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND. We as women need to no that men will always cheat..
That tramp is crazy. She needs to go to jail. It doesn’t matter the DA is taking that ass anyway.You are not her property and she had no right to do that to you. damn shes acting like a victim of domestic violence! Im gonna pray for you! Hope you get better soon!!!!
While I do agree that this was extreme and I do hope the guy heals with the Grace of God; this should be a lesson for people. 1st we don’t know if this mans cheating has given the girl some disease that she can not give back or that made her infertile (guys you can kill our future children by cheating) and 2nd what else happened after being confronted about his cheating. Some men want to fight and carry on after being busted instead of shutting up and showing some sign of remorse. Anyone will lash out in the right circumstances and this was right for her. Being cheated on when you love someone is not just mentally painful but also physical. No one knows her state of mind but she must be suffering badly right now as well. Ask yourself if you have ever overreacted to any problem in any way bc that is what happened here.
UUUGGGGHHHHH!!!!! This is just nasty!!!! Not exceptable!! More then normal for a woman to be infuriated by men’s behavior’s however this is just way too much! I really would like to see the face of the woman that did this…. I would like to know her reaction, as I’m sure she didn’t expect the result to be this bad! Hopefully??!
This is a horrific burn. I do not want to let men off the hook for cheating but, wow, this certainly has branded him for life as well as the mental scars he will bear. I always think that what is good for the Gander is good for the Goose.
He is going to need alot of painful debriding and probably skin grafts.
This was an act of violent rage and a desperate attempt to exercise control over another human being by leaving a (your) mark on him for life. It is the ageless “If I can’t have you to myself then no one will.” She needs to go to jail and be held responsible for his medical bills.
woooowwwww that looks so painful poor dude but some do deserve it some not all but some
Wheeeew Lawd! Well….this should put dudes && chicks on notice, don’t play with peoples emotions. On a brighter note, she could have pulled out a gun and shot him dead. After he heals, he’ll be alright…scarred, but alright.
She certainly went too far and should have more self-control. But is you’ve ever read what some pimps do to their “employees” – this ain’t nothing! Or the young 10 and 12 yr old girls sold into sex slavery? Men can be very callous – now that the tables are turned, people seem shocked. I’m not saying it’s right. But he made stupid choices and there are always consequences.
Hell nah dude it wouldn’t bring mah meat back but id kill er ass her kids moma dad any siblins would b gone nah I would leave her alive to suffer trill shit
DAmn is i all i could say.
That is grounds for justifiable homicide
Not saying im abusive but if he beat her ass i would understand
Damn – Ouch
She should have gotten her revenge by fcukin his, Brother, Friend, uncle, cousin,daddy or son…I hate to admit it but, he should get some grease too!!!
I always say cheaters deserve every kind of karma that comes back to them, but this is crazy! I mean, cheating is not ok, but it WILL happen. You are either going to get cheated on, or be the cheater, its part of life….and i would say, you cant stop it, but in this case….i will have to say, I bet he aint gonna cheat again! Damn, talk about being scarred for life!!!
DAMN ! Idc Whatt Nobody Say If He Cheated He Deserved It .. Even Thoee I Feel Bad For Him , Thatt Shitt Is Sad ! …. But Nobody Told Him Tooo CHEAT , Cheaters Get Scared ( Litteraly ) But Thatt Shit Look Like It Hurt , And He Aintt Gonnaa Be Able Tooo Have Kidsss !
This is horrible. I have a son, and I would kill a bitch if she did this to my son. If he’s cheating leave his ass. If my son cheated I would tell the woman to leave him alone, if she thought she had to hurt him.
My issue here is she is ‘justified’ because he cheated. agreed he should have been more adult about it in the first place but flip the scenario and have it be the female that cheated and had the hot grease dumped on her what would the out come be then????? i will gaurentee the punishment would be a ton harsher if a guy did that to a woman!!!
thats horrible, no one should have to endure that. im not saying he was right for what he did but vengeance is the lord’s, if i would have burnt my hubs dick off for everytime he cheated, there would be no bottom half of him lmao! Some people just need mental help
i cant blame the women. why she do that for men.because maybe they have do anything the guy not see the girl so that time the girl saw her he was lie so maybe that the girl saw he was cheater….. so that this time that guy need more learned not doit again so no saw from you dick and no cheater to someone so that never do that again from you.
ahahahahahahahaha good for him =) shoulda kept his dick in his pants n it wouldnt have gotten burned!
What the F*#K! That woman would either be dead or in jail. That is attempted murder. She just ruined his life. He will probably never get laid again.
Wow thats out cold its noy enough love to go ham like that. If a man cheat just leave him, because in the end you can always up grade and be with someone much better, I think that act was very stupid, that was some mother son,How would you feel if that was your sibling or Dad, burned like that, sometimes you have to just count to ten, now the point is made but, is jail time worth it, I love freedom and if this woman would had thought before she reacted, 2wrongs dont make a right,and Im pretty sure that womans mother is not to happy Ladies if a man cheats on you,He wasnt the one for you period,Its always someone way better trust me.
They really come out on the internet… To justify this is ludicrous. Scum like this get what they deserve. You don’t have to believe in karma to get satisfaction out of a situation like cheating… or do what this woman did.. yikes. He made her life miserable by cheating, she made his miserable by… doing this, and her life is even more miserable now that she has to deal with the consequences of her actions. Maybe she’s satisfied with what she has done. A sad thought but feasible considering the kind of people who exist these days. Moving on is the best way. Revenge is a terrible thing to hold on to, but the majority of people in this world would never even try to understand that. The cycle of hate continues…
my husband lied and cheated on me all the time…but i just let him do what ever he want’s to do..just as long as he comes back to me,and he is doing his job for the family..:)
There is nothing like a woman scorned! love manifests it self so quickly into hate. just be sure the lover your with can love you enough to let get and not fix you a meal after hours which your the main course.
there are some point that I agree with from several of the posts but most importantly i don’t believe that she needed to take it to that extent. There was a post that stated if a person is given a chance to make a choice they should be allowed that oppertunity i agree. Telling the truth gose both ways in a relationship it is very important to keep lines of communication open. If you have to cheat then then you should reevaluate the relationship your in if your that unhappy then leave.
dam man hope for a speedy recovery
Wow! Dumb-ass, now you can’t have it either.
I know she was hurt by being cheated on but that was toooooooo far, bitch is pyscho. cut up his clothes, key his car, but that is soooooo fucked up!
That is a shame when bad makes a person feel like doind the unthinkable it is time to let loose and walk away.What in the hell is going on in people minds in these days. This is SAD.
That is a shame> when bad makes a person feel like doing the unthinkable> it is time to let loose and walk away.What in the hell is going on in people minds these days and times This is SAD.
If a man cheats on someone it is up to GOD to punish him. No one deserves what has happened to this guy! Yes, I have been lied to by men and found he had another woman when he was telling me I was the only one!!!! I sliced tires yes!!! I would never do this to someone– he is scared for life and he will forever be reminded what he did to this girl!!! Also, never ever LUV any man more than U LUV yourself because you have to be able to move on if it doesn’t work!!!!
thats wassup i bet that biatch wont cheat anymore lls n all u otha niggas take it as a lesson
@ Tisha u are very ignorant. I don’t care what the situation is. How would you feel if someone done that to you? He/she, are whatever that case maybe, may wait till you go to sleep and put bleach in a douche bottom and stick it up your pussy. WHat are you gonna do then? You really need to think before u react. She will pay for that, because KARMA is a bitch. Believe that!
This craaaaazy loco bitch should be made to stand naked and have hot grease thrown at her. I mean I don’t condone the cheating but wow she went above and beyond…..I don’t even really have words to express how fucked up this was. Maybe if you weren’t so crazy he wouldn’t of cheated on you. Ok, you got cheated on almost everyone in the world has probably been cheated on, but normal people are sad for a while but then get on with there lives and move on to the next victim hoping it may be something. In lames terms she is fucking nuts. Throw her in a padded room and leave her there. Oh yeah Karma I’m a big believer in Karma so she better watch herself. Do to others as you would want done to youself.
The only way this is acceptable is if he tried or did rape the girl. Otherwise she has some serious issues
Single men cannot cheat. Married folk are legally obligated to each other. Until that time, both parties are free to do what they choose with whom they choose.
This woman may face criminal charges that she may deem unpleasant, that’s the good news. Karma is the universe’s hitman…when it comes around, it will hit her like a boomerang…that’s the realistic (bad) news.
Think before you do!
his d*** is lil lmao did it shrink in the grease or was it already like that lamo to bad for him!
It’s unfortunate for him that he was done this way, bro if you’re reading these please don’t take any of it to heart. My prayers are with you my brother and be as strong as you can and look to God for strength and forgiveness. I hope the girl that did this never gets to read these, I hope she was immediately put away some where and is never allowed contact with the human race again, at least men. This can’t be justified ladies. Think about it for a moment, having hot grease poured onto and into your vagina …… ASK YOURSELVES, IS THERE ( ANY REASON ) SOMEONE HAS THE RIGHT TO DO THIS TO YOU?
First off, if I every did something like that to someone I would really regret it.
It’s normal for someone to act in a rage when their feeling are hurt! I feel sorry for him,because he didn’t know how to treat his girlfriend. I feel sorry for her,because she cared too much for him,to just leave him.
He burned her heart!..And she burned his body! so sad!
(@ BIG B) Women have had things like this done to her, just because she was attractive.
Men burned their women just for looking at another guy. Men have raped women with hot curling irons, and bats etc. Most women know how sad this is.
It’s just that some men don’t really know how sad it is for women.
Men in india burn their women’s faces with acid, just because she cheated or don’t want to marry who they say.
Cheating is not right at all for either sex, and being hurt and ashamed can result in sum not so nice ways unfortunately, I feel for this guy in the only aspect of the physical pain and embarrassment but not for any reason on how and y he got this! Hopefully this speaks to other cheaters male and female and they might think twice bc they just nvr know. But I do not condone this behavior in anyway shape or form and yes I have been cheated on many times and know the pain and humiliation. But they will b judged! Let the big man upstairs do his job! Just know u r better then that person in so many ways specially when u walk away!
No matter in any circumstance there r 2 wrongs here and no one knows what happened to the female before and after to really get her here maybe this isnt his 1st time cheating and maybe there r kids involved and maybe there r alot of yrs into this relationship either case pain is unexplainable and its different to every person and situation. And maybe the guy was wanting away from her maybe she WAS crazy maybe she was controlling either or as I said its 2 wrongs here and they nvr make a right. If there was children involved I dont want to know the lesson they r learning or what they now think is ok. And what behavior they now think is exceptible. But what I want ppl to walk away with is that in life we need to learn that there r situatiuons and reasons that r bigger then us and emotions need to b disconnected at times. (which is very hard and can still complicate things) but if their were children involved what do they think of their father and now their mother? (and this is just an example) Showing these situations is desensitizing the future generations more and more and that is where I am worried as it says up in the top “First ladies cut off a mans joint, now they burning it!” Its getting worse and anger is stemmed from passion or love. sum could argue both or even neither at all! All Im trying to say is that as time goes by and society changes (for better or worse) ppl r looking and reading and taking it all in. So people use ur brains we all have em and know what they r for and sum times the greater good is worth a little pain just to know our children, or younger siblings will make better choices bc of us and what we did and do in these hard times….they r looking, watching and listening even when we dont think so. REMEMBER THAT!!!! and God Bless!!!!
to gemini girl i agree with u because im a gemini too and one thing we do not like for a nigga to play with our emotions. just tell us from the jump what the deal is maybe we might consider it to be a good idea or a bad one but yeah the girl was wrong for that but hey love can be an evil thing sometimes and it make you act a certain my my advice to people is stop playing damn gamesand keep the shit real if you just want to fuck say that then opposed to draggin the shit on for a whole fucking year and more pretending that you were going to have a future the shit is pointless and casues toooo mucking fucking confusion
In NO WAY am I condoning dude cheating, and I personally would never be in his predicament…but, IF that was me, I SWEAR to u, ole girl would not live to see her next birthday.
The worest part is there are women like sarai caldwell of gary that are hoes who only can get men from other women! maybe some grease should be thrown on the greasy bitches like that too. my woman would prob do the same but them again, you do what you do and dont think of the consequence
MY LADY WOULD HAVE DONE THE SAME THING YO. DOESNT MAKE IT RIGHT BUT YOU DO HAVE CONSEQUESNCES IF YOU FUCK WITH STICKY BITCHES
okay now this bitch needs to get her pussy burnt. him cheating is what validated this shit right? well her burning the shit out of his dick warrants him throwing some hot grease on her pussy. bitch if this were me I would throw that shit in her face, the lean down and ever so softly whisper sweet nothings into her crusted ear while her shrills of pain fills the oil filled room. as she starts to calm I would walk in to the kitchen and grab the flower. as I am walking back I would be humming the theme to the Jefferson. lean over the bitch and antiuque the the slut making sure every sizzling burnt crevice was filled, and walk singing ( wonder why they call you bitch ) hahahahaha
I don’t care who my partner sleeps with as long as I know and me too, We have one of those rare open relationships that really do work. But if you are one to one, the embarassment, anger, fear and jealousy can be overwhelming when you’ve been so badly let down by the one you trust, I can understand that the rage would be instant, I don’t think she even knew what she was doing.
Best be open and honest in the first place, then that would never have happened.
Anyone that obviously planned (I am sure she didnt have hot grease in her pocket and walked in on them) and does something of this magnitude needs to go to jail, female or male. Picture evidence of the confused mental state of some women which is not to far from some men. Anyone that supports or condones this act is just as guilty as the person that did it. As I am very sure, there are no angels, and though partial story is assumed about the cheating, the full story is not known by anyone but them. What is interesting, some supporters are the ones that post and advocate God. I do hope for a speedy recovery and quick justice.
This is just wrong. Yeah he sheated or so she says. But to do something like that to a person. This chick has some real issues. I would’nt wish anything like this on my worst enimy
Sorry ass..empty ass woman….most women are this….she should just tried to kill herself like Fantasia.
bugger, next time think twice before you cheat
Well I guess the girl must be arrested since if the man was to have some love for her he would never cheat on her and she must know that.
I got this logic from a 3rd world country where a gal rhetorically asks: why keep a partner who is not true to you? You are not married to him/her are you? Perserverance is only demanded in matrimony coz of “that till death do as part” vow or crap. Without commitment, whatever u do u only come off looking bad. The wise thing is to let go.. become available for the opportunity of a prince charming to come along.
well….I feel bad for the guy….and it isn’t right by any means…..but…there are two sides to every story…..my question is….why would someone post this pic??? if it was the guy who posted it….sounds to me like he is trying to clear his conscience…and looking for sympathy…..if the girl posted it….she needs help if all he did was cheat…I suspect there is more to the story than what we know…..,my opinion only….:)
This is a crime,yes it is but before we send her to prison for life, we need all the facts, what did he do to her ? did he give her aids, herpes or any STD ? was he beating her ? we need to here the entire story before we pass sentence. wake up people and stop cheating on each other.
oh shit! thats a seriously FU situation. short of passing an STD like previous poster wrote, i dont see any justification for that.
In every sense of the word the young man was wrong for cheating and playing with her emotions, but what has she gained by mutilating him. Oh he will be hurting physically and emotionally for some time to come, but she will be in jail for quite a while as well so what was achieved. ” Dearly beloved
, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. Feelings can get you into stuff that you can’t get out of, I pray that both young people learn a valuable lesson from this.
well shi happens and i bet the paint he caused her he feels now its a proven fact that wen someone breaks ur heart it hurts as almost as much as a womb he jus lucky he isnt in another counrty bcuz the can get killed for something like that by law
watch out convicted child molestors…
ther is no right to some one cheating but these things are a part of relationships these days some times you find the right on sometimes you dont and it makes you stronger for the next one most of us have an idea that some one is cheating if you get that feeling then you should walk on that was unecessary regardless of what he said to here as for abuse you cant be abused if you leave her ass needs to be put under the jail
Look, Im a woman and here is the real deal. Men dont think how it effects us women emotionally when we truly love them and they cheat. emotions are the worst thing as well as your heart to have hurt and alot of men dont care. They think that they can do whatever they want to us and it will be ok. And although I dont condone domestic violence or what this woman did at all, GOOD FOR HER for standing her ground. Yes its completely in the wrong for physically attacking him and she should suffer the consequences for it however, what consequences do men have to suffer for hurting us and breaking out hearts just because they want to stick they dick in other chicks? What makes one so much worse then the other honestly?? Now everytime he attempts to cheat, he will look down and ask himself is it really worth it!!!!!
I have no answers, only observations… But I can tell you this: we have evolved into a society where there are no consequences for our actions until it’s too late. That applies to both parties in this situation. We are in a time where our boundaries are so few that we are aching for there to be a line drawn… Even if that line is inappropriate and we have to draw it ourselves.
The bitch that did this needs a bullet n her head, and might still get one. there is no justification for what she did “did he pour hot grease on her?”
U stupid angry broads need to get over it and get a life.
Keep your legs closed and you wont get your feelings hurt, an u wont turn into this crazy bitch
If a man did this to a lady, you ladies would want his dick cut off on Oprah
alot of u crazy chicks r condoning what she did, Ive been hurt emotionally, but i didnt want to toss gas on her an light a match.
YOU ANGRY BLACK LADIES YOU WILL ONE DAY SEE IT, WHEN BLK MEN WILL NO LONGER MARRY U, OR EVEN WANT 2 B WIT U BEHOND SEX.
Well reading all these comments its sounds as though none of you have God in your life. I have been in a situation as deep as my husband raping my neice and yes I felt like killing him but where would that get me in the long run when I have children to raise. Only the Lord can help me through this and yes the devil has been attacking me in every direction but I know that the all mighty has my back and my husband will indeed be judged and im not the who can do that…GOD WILL! So ladies love yourself and if you have to look in the mirror and say it , do so cause how can you be loved if you dont love yourself. A man only do what you allow him to and if he cant be faithful then leave him. That picture above shows anger and we as woman are very emotional human beings but we need to get a grip of our emotions and not let things get that far. And about that person that left that comment about black women, maybe its just that we need to stop dating you black cheating men. Naw im not going to go there, cause the difference between me and these other women is that I believe in the Lord. All black women and men are not the same and there is indeed good ones out there, it just depends on what kind of crowd your looking in.
this is so unfair..this woman had enuff time to think about what she was about to do..no one deserves to be assaulted like this..if she felt like he did her wrong then she should have left….there are warning signs……….if your man is cheating,if he wants to be with other women..let him…..no man or woman should make u feel this angry..this woman is evil!nd he needs to press charges on her ass….she better b glad it my brotha..this man is suffering..i feel so bad for him….crazy bitches!
Well I am not choosing sides….I’m just saying there are always three sides to a story….each party involved and then the truth…..:)
that so fucked up his lil man look like dat !but thats what he gets 4 cheatin 2 wrongs dont make it right but gettin even shure felt gud to her.he couldnt hav been my man cuz it would look worst then that it would have been cuttoff an stuck up his azz women r bck an on there a game men men cut da bull literally cut the bull lol
Okay, so many of you people here are saying;
That man could not have done anything to deserve getting hot grease on his genitals, and
What that woman did to this man is so horrid that she deserves to be shot/hanged/have the same thing done to her etc.
This article doesn’t mention much details, but this man could have very well been abusing his girlfriend and in the end, pushed her over the edge by the cheating on her. Who says he may not have been a very bad person?
And I really don’t get the logic that throwing hot grease on a man’s genitals is disgusting and something you should not expose a man to, but this “hoe” deserves to die for it? Please try to keep your opinions straight people; do you think people deserve to be hurt/killed for bad things they do, or not? Keep that discussion for those “should we have death sentence for the most horrifying criminals?”-debates
Personally, I’m reserving my opinion. Yes, this woman did a horrid thing but everyone does mistakes and she doesn’t deserve to take severe or even fatal injury because of it. Whether this man is completely innocent and undeserved of this accident or not, is morally debatable and something that we need more back-story about the man’s treatment of the woman to discuss more sensibly.
But please, stop killing her a “b***h” or “hoe” or say that she deserves injury or death; they are very hateful and discriminating things to say, not to mention hypocritical.
If you want a open relationship, get a girl that is down for that. stop lying about what you want. their are women who dont want commitment either …find one…do act like you do because if your action show different you might get an extreme reaction like this dude got
This all could have been avoided if he hadnt been deceptive. Yes she went over board, but this should be an example to all people to stop CHEATING! Its just not right.
@ Gemini Girl: You sound as though you would do the same shit. ALERT!!! Anyone dating or in a relationship with “Gemini Girl” dump her ass before you become a statistic……
@ Stephanie: You are crazy too….. Unless that man did serious bodily harm or gave her a incurrable STD (i.e. abuse, AIDS, Herpes, etc…) would warrant such actions. Cheating alone should NEVER be the reason for this, male or female. You should just leave! I know I would have popped one in that bitch’s temple if she did that shit to me. She wouldn’t live to tell about such an act…….. Now let that be a warning to the next women who would think of doing this. I am sure there other men whom would do the same thing if this was done to them.
wow that is crazy…Yes the guy is a jerk for cheating but I mean did he really deserve THAT? She just gave him a permanent injury and changed his life all for a temporary spurt of anger an hurt…Its a shame but I think she needs some counseling or some anger management classes wit a good dose of valium to chill her ass out because that was uncalled for.
Cheating Does’nt justify tht,women really think they have the right to fucc up mens shit just bcuz they mad.”Sorry But Some Pussy/dick does’nt mean you own some1″Even tho men may feel different about this.,,But In PUSSY WHIPPD AMERICA..Women are Above,Equal and have more rights then men in 2010..She should be delt with the same way a man would be delt with if he punched her in the face.I’ve had my day with young domestic bullshit,but tht was MANNNNYYYY years ago.I just can’t cee giving a female tht kind of energy anymore “meaning i’ll bounce b4 it go that far”".I don’t care if u married, u don’t own any1,,SPECIALLY NOT IN AMERICA.A marriage is nothin but a lease,bcuz whn u own somethg,u don’t have to keep paying for it if u decide to get somethg New.
“truly” he did not deserve this for cheating…..not this!!!!maybe a busted car window or something.but i believe there were signs on what ever was going on in there relationship and she choose to stay until she exploded.and for him, i believe there were signs of her anger issues (possibly bipolar) but he choosed to stay,play and cheat. to do this to a person you must be insane(bipolar) because i can’t see a sane women or man doing this because his girl or her boy friend cheated.men stop playing around with these women hearts and emotions,be honest! cause you never know who you are dealing with,bipolar women can be very caring and loving but will drag you to hell,f%%k you up and walk away with a smile. women,if a man cheat on you,walk away cause he will cheat again. if a person show you who they are……”believe them”!!!!!!!
Damn! Funny how the men are stickin together on this. Basiclly it don’t matter what they put us girls thru – as long as we don’t mess up their “junk”. hmm – funny. There have been men beatin’ on & cheatin’ on us since the dawn of time. I’m not saying that the girl that did this was in the right – not by any means, she needs to be punished by the law. just commenting on how these “men” are banding together. If I caught mine doin it – I’d make them both get out of my house nekkid as jay-birds. and laugh and maybe post the pictures. I do believe in revenge, (although they say 2 wrongs don’t make a right) but there’s a difference in wounding someone’s pride and wounding someone’s body.
“She must come from southern Louisiana; got to be……..”
The next time she will through “hot-grits” on that clown…….and that is the mentally of a south Louisiana woman…………..good as gold but do not that no SH…..T!
shouls be “throw” …. got nervous.
I am definitly not justifying him cheating but she would have to suffer for that either do time in jail or i put a bullet in her head. That is terrible no one deserves to have that happen to them because they cheated, are you serious move on and find somebody better it’s not worth goin to jail for somebody cheating on you.
@ catarina no we do not know the whole story to what happened or if he was a bad person. But if he was and she decided to stay and put up with him then that was her decision, never let anyone drive you to just lose yo mind and do somethin like remove yourself from the situation all together. I dont care if you have to be homeless on the street be homeless and alive if he was so called abusive and she deserves whatever comes to her cause if it were me if she did’nt kill me she wouldn’t be breathing period.
lol – yeah – i’ve heard about them hot grits! now that is some evil shit. Basically – if you ain’t doin nuthin wrong – you got nuthin to worry about. when you wrong someone it WILL come back to you. Whether it comes to you in the form of hot grease, (or grits), a bullet, a disease – it will come back to you. she’s called Karma and she is a bitch. If you don’t want the one you’re with, send them on down the road before you move on to the next kitten. when you try to have your cake and eat it too, can’t nuthin’ but bad come to you. Men need to get over themselves. The world does not revolve around your “johnson”.
Talking about a smoked sausage……lol
dang poor thing i hope he gets over the trama nd it feels betta u kno i got burned maself but not 2 this extent nd not down there
WELL THEY SAY THOU SHALL NOT CHEAT…BUT DAHYUMMMMMM
I guess its more than 1 way a guy can get burn’t having sex……
bet he wont cheat on a woman again!
Im not saying he deserved it, but I bet you he will think twice about ever cheating again! As for the woman…her point has been proven. Next time maybe a different way would also be as clear…but it is what it is. Make smart choices people!
He was wrong, he did not deserve this. She should have left the ass, first. She could have found a decent man. Such a shame.
I just like to said un-protected sex can be a death sentence-HIV. If anyone knowingly go out and cheat without using protection. Is committing an assault on their mate.
For all you people who feel sorry for him what about her’s well being-health. Who is to say that this woman and other that he may have slept with was healthy. Have you seen what AIDS looks like in it final stage? It is nothing pretty. I hope that they both heal from this. I was cheated on LET ME SAY THAT IT WAS THE FEAR OF EVIL SURROUNDING ME THAT I PRAYED FOR GOD TO HELP ME. Because I would be in jail now.
dats really FUCKED up of that BITCH! I hope she gets miserable for the rest of her life… that man don’t deserve to be treated like that regardless… WHO ARE U TO JUDGE AND MAKE THE FINAL DECISION IN LIFE??? jus coz he cheated on u doesn’t mean you have to punish him like that you are not his mother nor his God!!! no wonder why he cheated on yo ass coz u a STUPID ASS BITCH!!! i cnt do that shit to my husband coz really i’d rather have God deal wit him then me…!
Aaaye!!
Ok, so no deserves this ever,EVER.
I can never justify a situation like this,it should never be justified. But we all know how hurt and angry we feel when we’ve been lied to and cheated on.I don’t think anyone has ever been hurt by someone and never had ill thoughts towards them no matter how “simple” they are. That heartbreak pain is REAL.Maybe she didn’t plan to burn him, maybe they were having an argument and unfortunately for him the hot oil was closer than the,rolling pin.Sometimes people get mad and react. But I have seen men do similar to women for something as simple as not having dinner cooked ontime. And all they do is get a few days if that much and then get to back home and do it all over again.
We’re killing each other, if you’ve got a man that won’t do right, then leave his ass before you do something you catch a case,just like you do with that crazy bitch in the parking lot.
This is unhumane!!! U done tried to cook the man nutz….That bitch need to sit for a long time and think about what she has done!!!
Does anyone even realize this mans problems not even over with yet he still has very strong chances of an infection setting in & alot of burn victims lose their life to infections not even one bit funny this girl has very severe emotional problems & needs help now
WOW, that’s awful. Poor guy. He may have cheated, but it does not warrant this kind of behavior. Throw her ass in jail.
If that was me I’d be in court fighting a life sentence for putting a bullet through her head. Real talk!!